Why are we drawn to certain people? Why this person and not that person?
Attraction, in reality, is not random.
On a conscious level, we usually have a clear sense of what we want. But in practice, what we are attracted to—and what is attracted to us—isn’t always what we consciously think we want.
In the long-term, this brings disappointment when things don’t work out.
To understand why, we need to look deeper. We need to uncover our hidden motives and desires that create attractions we aren’t consciously aware of.
As we do this, we will find that attraction itself carries deep meaning. Because relationships are valuable mirrors for us, long before they become partnerships.
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