Healing the Hurt
Healing the Hurt
Guidance for how to help others


THE SELF.CARE. SERIES, Book Two
Healing the hurt: Dying into pain, waking up to life
Deep spiritual healing asks people to go where we have all learned not to go—into our feelings, beneath our stories, behind our defenses.
But how does a person get through this difficult terrain? How does real transformation happen?
In truth, we all need help doing this. And the ones who help us? They need guidance as well.
Drawing on the teachings of the Pathwork Guide, this book offers a detailed look at what’s happening beneath the surface of our difficulties—and how a skilled Helper can learn to see what is really going on.
This is not a book about giving people answers. It is a book about learning how to truly, deeply help.

The Guide didn’t talk about working with others in the Pathwork lectures or Q&As. That information is what I am sharing here.
– Chapter 2: About Pathwork
Contents
Part One: The Foundation
Part Two: Learning to Listen
4 What we're listening for
5 Finding what lies beneath
6 Understanding our faults
7 No easy answers
Part Three: Working with Experience
8 Into the body
9 Healing painful re-creations
10 Confronting the Lower Self
11 Dig deep
12 A creative way of working
13 Working with character structures
14 Working with sexuality
Part Four: Being the Helper
15 How we relate
16 Attending to the details
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