Spilling the Script

Spilling the Script

An overview of Pathwork teachings

THE SELF. CARE. SERIES, Book One

Spilling the script: A concise guide to self-knowing

There’s a script running your life. It was written long before you were old enough to question it.

Hidden beneath our thoughts and reactions is an unconscious pattern that quietly shapes our relationships, choices, fears and struggles. The Pathwork Guide calls this the work of the Lower Self. Left unseen, it repeats the same story—again and again.

Spilling the Script reveals that hidden script.

Drawing on the timeless wisdom of the Pathwork Guide, Jill Loree translates profound spiritual teachings into a practical map of the human psyche. Discover how the Higher Self, ego, inner child, shame, images, masks and negative intentions all fit together—and how they create the recurring patterns of everyday life.

More importantly, learn how to stop identifying with the script—to stop acting it out—and begin living from the truth of who you really are.

If we come to know ourselves, we come to know God. There is nothing we must believe to do this.
Chapter 10: Digging for Gold | The Higher Self

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"The truth is that love is the key to all life and the only safety there is. That is the great truth…

Before this truth can be discovered, you need to discover where, within the depths and recesses of your being—not at first conscious to you—you violate this law of truth and love.

And every single human being does."

Pathwork® Guide Q&A #161

The promises of healing through spiritual work

In the course of this work, we develop on various levels of our being:

In our spirit, we move from duality to unity.
In our mind, from images and vicious circles to truth.
In our will, from forcing currents and withholding, to receptivity and generosity.
In our emotions, from numbness to flow.
In our bodies, from frozen and divided to breathing, open and integrated.

Over time, we will develop discernment and a truer perception about the world around us. We will shift from our defensiveness, to a stance of openness and transparency.

The emotional reactions of others may affect us, but that doesn't mean they activate us. We will be wise in our self-disclosure and rigorous in self-honesty.

We will learn to become vulnerable and we will know peace.

Contents

Introduction

Tapping the Source | The Lectures and Q&As
About: The Pathwork Guide

Part One: Coming to Life
About: Tending the garden within

1 Finding the Treasure | The Self
About: The arc of our journey home

2 Walking the Walk | Relationships
About: Growing by way of connection

3 Keeping It Real | Time and Money
About: Living from abundance

4 Crafting Our World | Words
About: The power of words

5 Tuning It In | Balance and Order
About: How to have more harmony

6 Opening the Veils | The Spirit World
About: The effects of unseen forces

7 Leading the Way | Jesus Christ
About: What Christ offers beyond religion

8 Making the Loop | Reincarnation
About: What we bring each lifetime

9 Turning the Corner | A New Age
About: How consciousness evolves

Part Two: Meeting the Selves
About: Mapping the psyche

10 Digging for Gold | The Higher Self
About: Finding the divine within

11 Seeing the Mirror | The Unconscious
About: What's hidden in our own being

12 Understanding the Inner Child | The Little-L Lower Self
About: Where emotional reactions come from

13 Embracing the Whole | Duality versus Unity
About: Seeing past either-or thinking

14 Taming the Beast | The Big-L Lower Self
About: The part that wants to stay stuck

15 Running for Cover | Masks and Defenses
About: False protections that create more pain

16 Letting It Go | The Ego
About: The vital role of this reluctant servant

Part Three: The Way Out
About: Healing ourselves

17 Calling on God | Prayer and Meditation
About: Partnering with the divine

18 Lifting the Lid | Shame
About: Why we hide from ourselves

19 Mining Our Thoughts | Images
About: The hidden beliefs creating our life

20 Revealing the Face | The God Image
About: What we really believe about life

21 Freeing the Force | One Energy
About: Why feelings must be transformed

22 Reversing the Flow | Negative Pleasure
About: Why change feels so difficult

23 Unwinding the Worst | Faults
About: Finding the gift inside our faults

24 Facing the Music | Self-Responsibility
About: Taking responsibility sets us free

25 Giving It Up | Negative Intention
About: Why we secretly resist what we want

26 Breaking the Mold | The No-Current
About: The hidden No behind an unfulfilled Yes

27 Aligning with Longing | Needs
About: Separating real needs from false demands

28 Holding It In | The Body
About: How the body remembers our story

29 Bucking the burden | Guilt
About: Why remorse heals and guilt does not

30 Setting the Sails | Symbols
About: Seeing life's deeper meaning

31 Hitting the Road | Next Steps
About: Where to go from here

©2015, 2021, 2026 Jill Loree. All rights reserved.

"If you demand of your life—and therefore of any path you contemplate entering—to bypass feeling your anxiety and your pain, to avoid owning up to your dishonesties, your cheating, your spitefulness, your games, and your more or less subtle pretenses, then it might be better for you not to start on this path.

But if you expect a real effort and are prepared to embark on the journey into yourself to find, acknowledge and bring out whatever is in you, if you summon all your inner truthfulness and commitment for the journey, if you find the courage and humility not to appear other than you are even in your own eyes, then you have indeed every right to expect that this path will help you realize your full life, and fulfill your longing in every conceivable way.

This is a realistic hope. You will increasingly know it to be so."

Pathwork Lecture #204