13 The ubiquitous faults of self-will, pride and fear
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13 The ubiquitous faults of self-will, pride and fear
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Our pride doesn’t matter half as much as our overly self-important little ego would have us believe.
There is one fundamental quality that is the core element of who we are… This means that each one of us have kept a kernel of perfection—our original nature—basically intact in our core essence. Although it’s now covered by the Lower Self and layer upon layer of imperfections…
So we have two missions. One is to sense what our basic light is. The other is to realize how these three faults of self-will, pride and fear collude to cover it up… They are the fundamental blockers of our essential light… We must see the role that each of them plays and not buy, for one minute, the notion that this trio applies to “everyone but me”…
Self-will wants what it wants, when it wants it. It will strive to have its way, regardless of who or what it has to step on to get it. It doesn’t even care if it brings hardship and imprisonment upon the self in the process… Self-will, then, is both blind and immature, and it works in opposition to spiritual law as much as in violation of human laws. And it really doesn’t care…
How then does our self-will connect with fear? If we’re sheltering a mountain of self-will—often extra-powerful because it is lurking in our unconscious—we’re going to live in perpetual fear that we won’t get our way… The problem isn’t that this is true. The problem is our warped perspective that this is necessary…
We’re snagged on pride when our ego thinks we’re more important than other people, so we want advantages for ourselves… If we feel another’s humiliation counts for less than our own, we have too much pride…
For as long as we’re ensnared in self-will, pride and fear, we can never be happy. It’s not possible… In knowing this, we hold a treasure. For now we hold the key to fixing all our problems.
Jill Loree grew up in northern Wisconsin with parents who embraced their Norwegian, Swedish and German heritage. Foods like lutefisk, lefse and krumkaka were prepared every Christmas. And of course there was plenty of beer, bratwurst and cheese all year round.
She would go on to throw pizzas and bartend while attending college at the University of Wisconsin, and then moved into a career in technical sales and marketing. She would settle in Atlanta in 1989 and discover that the sweet spot of her career would be in marketing communications. A true Gemini, she has a degree in chemistry and a flair for writing.
One of Jill’s greatest passions in life has been her spiritual path. Raised in the Lutheran faith, she became a more deeply spiritual person in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) starting in 1989. In 1997, she was introduced to the wisdom of the Pathwork Guide, which she describes as “having walked through the doorway of a fourth step and found the whole library.”
In 2007, she completed four years of training to become a Pathwork Helper, and stepped fully into her Helpership in 2011. In addition to offering individual and group sessions, she has been a teacher in the Transformation Program offered by Mid-Atlantic Pathwork. She also led marketing activities for Sevenoaks Retreat Center in Madison, Virginia and served on their Board of Trustees.
In 2012, Jill completed four years of kabbalah training and became certified for hands-on healing using the energies embodied in the tree of life. She began dedicating her life to writing and teaching about personal self-development in 2014.
Today, Jill is the proud mom of two adult children, Charlie and Jackson, and is delighted to be married to Scott Wisler. She’s had more than one last name along the way and now happily uses her middle name as her last. It’s pronounced loh-REE. In 2022, Scott joined her full time in their mission to spread the teachings of the Pathwork Guide far and wide.
