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11 What are we fighting for? The Big-L Lower Self

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Jill shares how feeling ignored and unsupported in her work with the Pathwork teachings stirred up a powerful hatred toward the organization—and how she came […]

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10 I spy with my little eye: The Little-L Lower Self

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Jill shares how, despite decades of self-development work, her young inner self repeatedly ran off during the first months of her relationship with Scott—and how […]

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9 Come out, come out, wherever you are: Hiding

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Jill explores the paradox of wanting deeply to be seen while also hiding behind a mask, even discovering an almost literal version of this in […]