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8 My favorite f-word: Fighting, Fawning or Fleeing

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Jill explores her tendency to withdraw when her feelings are hurt, especially in her relationship with Scott, and what happens when she learns to stay […]

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7 So you’re the rubber and I’m the glue? Our Work

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Jill shares how looking closely at her recurring experiences of being seen—and not being seen—helped her uncover a deep inner split rooted in childhood. Scott […]

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6 Praying for a toehold: Truth

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Jill shares a moment when being overlooked at work triggered an old wound around not being seen, and how praying to know the truth helped […]