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5 Would I rather be right or happy? Duality

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Jill shares the painful end of her ten-year marriage, when she found herself caught between two choices that both seemed destined to hurt. Scott describes […]

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4 I’m totally fine, I feel nothing: Numbness

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Jill shares how the devastating death of her young niece, Sarah, broke through a numbness she had lived with for years and ultimately opened the […]

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3 Building castles in the sky: Reality

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Jill and Scott revisit their difficult ski trip and share what they discovered beneath the surface of what seemed to be a simple disconnect between […]