Diligent students of positive thinking are encouraged to do the one thing that is the very worst: push negative thoughts out of their mind and into their unconscious.
Pearls
12 The right and wrong way to think positively
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Students of positive thinking are encouraged to do the Very Worst thing: push negative thoughts out of their mind and into their unconscious.
Students of positive thinking are encouraged to do the Very Worst thing: push negative thoughts out of their mind and into their unconscious.

The Pathwork Guide offers a clarifying and often surprising look at positive thinking, challenging common misunderstandings about how it truly works. While many believe positive thinking means suppressing negative thoughts and focusing only on the good, this approach can actually backfire.

When we push unwanted thoughts and feelings out of awareness, they don’t disappear—they become more powerful, operating unconsciously and shaping our lives from behind the scenes.

The Guide explains that real transformation begins with honesty. Instead of denying negativity, we must bring it into conscious awareness, understand its roots, and work through it. This requires patience, self-observation, and a willingness to face uncomfortable truths about ourselves. Only then can genuine change occur.

Faith and certainty also follow this same principle. They cannot be forced or created through outer proof or mental effort alone. Rather, they develop gradually as we remove inner obstacles and align with truth.

True positive thinking, then, is not about pretending everything is fine. It is about accepting reality, including our struggles, and taking responsibility for our inner state. By doing so, we begin to trust life more deeply, knowing that even difficulties have meaning and can lead to growth.

In the end, lasting happiness comes not from avoiding truth, but from living in it.

Pearls: A Mind-Opening Collection of 17 Fresh Spiritual Teachings

Read Pearls, Chapter 12: The Right and Wrong Way to Think Positively

Read Original Pathwork® Lecture: #13 Positive Thinking: the Right and the Wrong Kind