The Pull
The Pull
19 Love cannot be a commandment
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THE PULL: Relationships and Their Spiritual Significance

There is a force in life pulling us toward connection. Toward love. Toward unity. Toward each other. But we resist it.

In The Pull, we explore how fear, misunderstanding, and hidden beliefs block our ability to relate—and how these same patterns hold the key to transformation. This book reveals how relationships mirror our inner world, and how every interaction offers a path toward growth.

As we learn to face ourselves with honesty and courage, something changes. We stop pushing love away. We stop forcing it. And we begin to experience it—naturally.

This is not just a book about relationships. It is a guide to living more fully, loving more freely, and becoming who we truly are.

The principles in this book apply to all people and all forms of relationship.

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19 Love cannot be a commandment

Our illusions, confusions and lack of love creates a tangled ball of disturbed emotions that forms a nucleus—like a foreign body—in our soul. The Pathwork [...]

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18 Three aspects that prevent loving

There are no shortcuts. We can’t bypass the inner noise of our fears and shames, defenses and urgent needs, and go straight to calmness. The [...]

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17 Relating: Sadness versus depression

A byproduct of depression is self-pity. It’s unhealthy because it’s unfounded. There is always a way out if we’re willing to look for it. The [...]

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